Relationship: 7 Ways To Know He Genuinely Loves You
There are a lot of quotes and speakers out there who have said different things about knowing the genuine person in your life.
Some of which are right while others say entirely different thing.
Below are 7 to know your partner is genuine
1. HE COUNTS YOU AS AN INVESTMENT:
By investment I mean he gives you his time, energy, finances to make sure you keep improving yourself.
Know that a man who does not have the capacity to invest in you financially does not disqualify him from being genuine especially if he invests his time and energy on you positively. Finance is important as well as his time.
2. HE WANTS TO KNOW YOUR PLANS:
When a man is interested in your future plans, he’s probably trying to have a future with you.
If he really loves you, he would want to know what your dreams and ambitions are and know how he can help you achieve it.
People say most men are intimidated by strong women but honestly reverse is the case. By strong women I mean women who know what they want and won’t stop till they get it.
3. HE WANTS YOU TO BE HAPPY:
He’s not interested in doing things that he knows will cause a rift between the both of you.
He avoids scenarios that will lead to fights or quarrels of any kind. Although for relationship to be sweet, there should be a little quarrel.
4. HE WONT BE ABUSIVE:
I’ve heard ladies say they like it when their man hits them. That’s an error.
A real man wouldn’t hit you no matter how many buttons you push. Personally I’ll ignore you and won’t respond to you for days till that demon inside you leaves.
Women are Emotional creatures, so deal with them emotionally, not physically.
5. HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU:
Let’s not deceive ourselves by being mediocres. We’re all adults and we know what’s up. He definitely wants your body as much as he wants the rest of you cause he’s attracted to you.
He likes you naughty and yet reserved. Truth be told, most men want a Cardi B or Megan Stallion mixed with CeeCee Winans or Chioma Jesus.
Even holy men will fall under anointing if a lady whispers something naughty into their ear. So don’t say that he’s not genuine because he wants sex. He wants it but that’s not all he wants.
6. HE’S BLUNT:
He says it like it is.
He’ll scold you when need be and pamper you later. He’ll correct you when you’re doing wrong. He won’t nag you, a man interested in you, won’t nag you.
7. HE PRAYS FOR/WITH YOU:
Some men don’t do the prayer thing but they encourage their women to do it. These are a few tips to know real and genuine men. And ladies, try to add value to yourselves, men like women who can think. Women with content and not just container.
I like it when a couple comes out and people say ” that’s Jude, the CEO of this and that.
Rather than she’s just the wife of the CEO. Read books ladies, whatever you’re passionate about, read up on how to better yourself at it.
If you’re ambitious, then mingle with people who are relevant to your goal. Develop yourself every single days.
Social Media is good, slaying is good but beauty without brains is a recipe for f*ck and go merchandise. You’re beautiful, you’re smart and you have the capacity to be independent and productive, so develop daily.
I hope someone reads this and is enlightened. You’re free to ask questions via here or dm and I’ll respond if I’m disposed to.