6 Secret To A Successful Relationship
Successful relationship comes with lot of responsibilities and discipline.
Partners involved must set inherent and strong rules that both parties must respect.
Relationship is like a two sided coin. The two coins must work together for a positive outcome.
Breaking these rules means exposing the relationship to the risk of separation and this method is commonly seen and works best in open relationships. The risk also applies to monogamous relationship.
For a relationship to be successful, these are the six basic things every partner must do.
6 Basic Keys To A Successful Relationship
There are so many ways to make your relationship (open or monogamous relationship) successful. Today, I will share 3 basic steps you have to consider.
1. AGREEMENT : BE SURE ALL PARTIES INVOLVED ARE IN AGREEMENT
For an open relationship, speak with your primary partner before taking any decision. The two parties must be in agreement. As well as monogamous relationship. Decision making isn’t made for one person.
Going contrary to this will be regarded as dishonest and infidelity. At least people should be able to abide by the rules they made or agreed upon. Agreement creates communication and respect.
2. COMMUNICATION: OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION WITH ALL PARTIES INVOLVED
Open relationships usually involves more than two persons. Therefore lack of open and honest communication can cause confusion, misunderstanding and mistrust. Not only in open relationship but in monogamous relationship too.
Those in relationships should have in mind that communication is the key. This is one of the secrets to success of any form of relationship entirely and being as honest as possible makes it easier.
3. RESPECT: RESPECT ALL PARTIES
Respect brings respect. In an open relationship, though secondary partners are there mainly to fulfill our sexual variety we should as well respect their opinions. And personal values because they might have more to offer other than just sex. Avoid using others for just sex whereas, they desire more. Unless on the basis of agreement
3 Basic Steps To Avoid
There are things you must avoid for your relationship to be successful
1. LACK OF FRIENDSHIP
“It is not lack of love, but lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages”.
Friendship strengthens love and where this is missing, open or monogamous relationship will never work. It will only work if both partners hold friendship in high value.
2. LOSE SIGHT OF YOURSELF
How to please our partner mostly when the relationship is still very new and fresh is all we think about. We go to the extent of buying them gifts, trying to improve our sexual performance in order to satisfy them, giving them full attention simply to make them happy which could sometimes be ill fare.
Ignoring your own needs to satisfy that of your partner can most times cause a lot of disrespect and unhappiness. While you try to make your partner happy, try as well to take care of your own needs because this is the only way you can truly show sincere love.
3. LIES AND DECEPTION
This is where the importance of open and honest communication will be more emphasized on because when things goes wrong or there is a new development within your relationship and you fail to communicate with your primary partner or tell lies about it, they are likely to find out sooner or later and this will result to nothing, but lost of trust and jeopardized relationship.
It is completely not advisable to lie and deceive your partner in any relationship