10 Secret Every Couple Must Know For A Successful Marriage
The beauty of every wedding is a successful Marriage. These days, there are more divorces than weddings. Marriage have a lot of responsibilities. And these reponsiblities involve both the husband and wife.
Below are the secrets
Alwats have this in mind that no one is perfect. Everybody have weaknesses. So, you either focus on your partner weakness or his strength.
You definitely know the outcome when your focus is on his or her weaknesses.
No body is a saint. All most everybody have experiences that you may not like to hear. No one is an angel.
Digging into people’s past is a good thing but will never benefit you anything. Instead, it will destroy your relationship. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Focus on the present as well as the future. This is the needed factor to make relationship work.
Every marriage faces challenges. Anyone that says he haven’t had a relationship challenge is lying.
Marriage is not easy. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. There will be a storm in a marriage, be mentally and emotionally ready for that.
Keep to your vow and promises.
Never compare your Marriage to outsider marriage. Don’t compare your marriage to anybody else’s marriage, not even your parents marriage. You are dealing with a totally different person. It’s all about patience, communication and hardwork.
As a Christian or a religious person. Remember that the spiritual life is very important. Therefore, you must be on a watch out. Declaring war against:
Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Third party influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack of love, Rudeness, Laziness, Disrespect, Cheating, etc.
Never expect a perfect partner. There is nothing like all ready made marriage. This union requires daily hardwork and sacrifices from the two parties. And remember it take years for it to work out.
You can never have a complete person. Most people have men/women of their dream in mind. But to make this dream to become a fulfillment, you have a lot of work to do. God will send your partner to you in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience
Never get married with a plan B in mind. It’s for better and for worst.
Contract marriage isn’t marriage. Always have it in mind. It is permanent and accept your partner as you accepted yourself. Total commitment is a MUST.
For a union to be successful, you don’t only need love. You need commitment, communication, respect, maturity, discipline and endurance from both parties.
There are prices to pay for a successful union and marriage. It have never being easy and, it’s isn’t easy anywhere. Believe in God and believe in your partner