How Can I Resist My Boyfriend from Touching me?
Advice: I Don’t Like My Boyfriend Touching Me and Still can’t Resist Him
It’s really starting to piss me off how my boyfriend casually touches me and I do not know
how to politely talk to him about it.
I’ve noticed that he enjoys grabbing my b*obs or slide his hands between my legs, though not as an invitation for sex rather it’s something he’s already getting used to and I’m not cool with it at all.
I’ve had similar experience in my past relationship and I ended up having less urge to get intimate with him because I get irritated each time he touched me unless when we are making out.
And now I’m facing same issue in my new relationship and I can’t keep harboring the ill feelings. I guess now
is the time to put an end to it. I don’t understand why it irritates me so much and I know I am not the
only one in this situation, so that is why I have brought these questions here:
1. Is it normal to feel weird about being groped when you are just going about your day?
2. Does this make you feel like a sexual object and not a person?
3. How can I approach him about this without him getting offended and defensive?
4. Why does it really irritate me so much?
The truth is, I love him and I would really be very grateful if he can just stop this bad habit of his. So far,
that’s the only issue I’ve got with him; my boyfriend is a very lovable person, he cares a lot about me
and he is very intelligent.
We’ve been together for just 5 months, but it feels like we have known each other right from birth; I can’t afford to let go of him- I just need him to readjust, so I’m seeking your honest advice on how to go
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