Must read: My Man is Good at Everything But Can’t Marry Him
SHOULD I SETTLE DOWN FOR A GUY JUST BECAUSE HE IS GOOD ENOUGH EVEN THOUGH WE DON’T
SHARE MUCH INTEREST?
I’ve been dating this guy for 6 months now; in bed we are completely compatible and he is very cute,
polite and respects me a lot.
It’s quite unfortunate that we do not share much interest. I bring up things we could do together to spice up the relationship, but he never does same.
He only gives me his total attention just when we are together, but immediately I’m gone he won’t call or text me; I wonder if he actually loves me or just practicing physical reaction.
Should I even say he is the go with the flow type?
We are both not ready to end the relationship and start all over again despite knowing we have a lot missing between us.
We both want to marry each other and have kids together, but it seems we are forcing things to happen between us. I’m confused because I love him so much and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him.
Now the question is; should I go ahead and marry this cute responsible and decent guy just because I
love him and hope one day he will change and become the kind of man I wish he is?
Should I settle for him and try to make it work? Should I move on while I look for the right one? I can now get to convince him to an extent to do certain things, I feel very safe opening up to him and I’m as well encouraging him
to do same.
He is a good man and doesn’t get defensive when confronted. If anyone has ever been in this kind of situation, please share with me how you got yours resolved.
My suggestion: The truth is there is no perfect relationship. The most important is to love and be sincere to each other.
Finally help each other to become better.